Lots of people have them.
In some cases people are serial adulterers. They are hedonists who are only interested in themselves, and they don’t care about who they hurt in the process. Basically they are narcissistic and selfish, and just overall not nice people.
But stats say that anywhere from 20-40% of people have affairs at some point. That many people can’t ALL be terrible human beings.
People generally don’t advertise when there has been an affair in their relationship, but often it gets out. And when friends and family find out that someone they know had an affair they are often stunned. A common reaction is:
He/she had an affair? I never thought they were the sort of person who would do that. I guess I didn’t know them that well after all.
This sort of reaction isn’t just isolated to outside observers though, as the betrayed partner…
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