I like the comments that are coming with different peoples perspectives and I am sure there will be more, however, as I expected and I asked this earlier, I think you cannot answer the question without knowing what love is. I took some things from peoples posts and I am trying to see what peoples take on this might be.
Love is: (I will add to this list as people post)
- bonding of feelings
- how we treat each other
- an intentional decision – Choice
Is love any of those things none of those things? Something completely different. I asked this before and discussed that there are many types of love, but love itself is such an ambiguous term because it can mean so many different things to so many different people. Can it even be defined or is it too different from person to person? If so then maybe love could be enough if your definitions and expectations of what love was matched with your partners. This is something I have never been able to understand, but would love to know. Maybe I am to literal and tangible of a person. I need things in categories, labeled so I know what they and what to expect. How can you do that with something that is so hard to define?